Men’s Sexual Health Services at Planned Parenthood'

There are many health issues that only affect men. This section focuses on men's sexual health issues.

There is much we can do to protect our health. Routine visits with a health care provider can help prevent serious illness. They can also diagnose and treat the common conditions that affect men. Whether you see your health care provider regularly, or if you have not yet made your first appointment, you may have many questions about men’s health.
Our goal at Planned Parenthood is to give you up-to-date, clear information that helps you better understand your sexual and reproductive health. We hope these pages give you the facts and tools you need to protect your health and to protect the health of men you care about.

Services offered at Planned Parenthood health centers vary by location. Some of the services include

• checkups for reproductive or sexual health problems
• colon, prostate, and sex screenings
• condoms and vasectomy
• erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation services, including education, exams, treatment, and referral 
• general health care and routine physical exams
• jock itch exam and treatment 
• male infertility screening and referral 
• STD testing and treatment
• urinary tract infections testing and treatment 

Use our health center locator to find the nearest Planned Parenthood health center that offers the services you need.
Planned Parenthood works to make health care accessible and affordable. Some health centers are able to charge according to income. Most accept health insurance. If you qualify, Medicaid or other state programs may lower your health care costs.

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What will be happen if I don’t want to have sex with anyone, ever?"

Many people feel this way at various times in their lives. It’s perfectly normal. People have different levels of sexual desire — some have more and some have less. Some people would be happy to have sex every day, and some people would be happy to have sex once a month, or less often, or not at all.
Many things can affect our desire for sex. They include stress, hormones, how comfortable we are with our partners, past sexual experiences, if we feel safe, how much we’re attracted to someone, illness, medication, and many other factors in our lives.

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Can I get pregnant from oral sex?"

No, it's not possible to become pregnant from oral sex whether ejaculate is swallowed or not. But pregnancy can occur if sperm are spilled into the vagina or on the vulva during any kind of sex. However, unprotected oral sex — on a woman or on a man — puts both partners at risk for a number of sexually transmitted infections, whether they are giving or receiving genital stimulation. For safer oral sex, use a condom to cover the penis, or a Sheer Glyde dam or plastic wrap to cover the vulva or anus.

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What is oral sex?"

Oral sex is using one's mouth to stimulate a partner's genitals. Just as with any kind of sex, everybody is different with various likes and dislikes, so communication is the key. In order to make sex more satisfying, it's important to be clear with yourself and your partner about what kinds of sex you want to do and don't want to do. Learning how to give oral sex is usually done by letting each other know what feels good and what doesn't. so both partners can learn what’s pleasurable.
Although there is no chance for pregnancy to happen from oral sex, unprotected oral sex puts both partners at risk for a number of sexually transmitted infections, whether they are giving or receiving genital stimulation. Although the risks of infection are generally quite a bit lower with unprotected oral sex than they are with unprotected vaginal or anal intercourse, using a barrier during oral sex can further decrease those risks. For safer oral sex, use a condom to cover the penis, or a Sheer Glyde dam, cut-open condom, or plastic wrap to cover the vulva or anus.

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Is it possible for a penis to go too far into a vagina?"

No It is not. Most women's vaginas are between three and seven inches long. This usually depends on a woman's general body stature. However, the vagina can stretch much longer and wider during sexual intercourse or childbirth. It is true, however, that some penises are too big to fit comfortably in some vaginas. This is one of the disadvantages of having a very big penis.

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What’s an orgasm How can I tell if I've had one?"

An orgasm is the release of built-up muscle tension resulting from sexual activity. It produces rapid muscle contractions usually in the genital and anal area, but these contractions can also be throughout the whole body. Most people find these muscular contractions very pleasant. At the same time, painkilling chemicals called endorphins are released into the bloodstream, causing intense pleasure and relaxation.You may feel flushed or warm, your heartbeat will race, you will breathe harder, and you'll experience rapid muscle spasms mainly concentrated in the genital and anal areas. In both men and some women, an orgasm is often accompanied with the release of ejaculatory fluid. Ejaculation is much more usual in men than it is in women. Only about 10 percent of women report ejaculating during orgasm. Orgasms can be reached through many different types of sexual activity. Most women are more likely to reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation rather than stimulation of only the vagina. Men tend to reach orgasm more quickly than women, just as men tend to become sexually aroused more quickly than women. On the other hand, women are more likely to have more than one or multiple orgasms during sexual activity than men are.
Women’s experience with orgasm is more varied than men’s, and not all women experience orgasm in the same way. There are also many women and men who get great pleasure from sex, whether or not they have orgasms.

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When do people start having sex

It depends. The average age when people start having sex is about 17. Only about half of high school students have ever had intercourse and even once they start having sex, most teens don't have sex frequently.
Choosing to have sex is a big decision. It's important to wait until you're ready to have sex.

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What Is Sex

For some people it’s only penis-in-vagina intercourse. For some people, it’s only penis-in-anus intercourse (anal sex). For some people, it’s genital rubbing without intercourse. For some people, it includes oral / genital contact. For some, it includes masturbation. The possibilities are many. For most experts (like Merriam-Webster and us), it includes all of the above.

People define “sex” in different ways. The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines it as “sexually motivated behavior.” This sounds right to us. But not everyone agrees with the dictionary or with us. People all have their own definitions of what is sex and having sex means.

However you define it, being sexual with another person — whether that means kissing, touching, or intercourse — involves a lot of responsibility.  It’s very important to protect yourself against pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections. And you need to make decisions about protection before you engage in vaginal, anal, or oral sex.

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My First Sex

It was spring, outside a fire station, he lifted my school skirt, thirteen and new it all felt wild but soft, as soon as his hands worked under the cotton i was meek and incoherent, the more you learn the less wild it gets, the less soft, but what takes it’s place is something altogether more amazing. I was just over 15 and had been dating a 16 year-old boy for about 10 days. I need to point out from the beginning that I had no idea we were going to have sex until the second we did. So he invited me to his place and I was thinking “great, we’re having pizza, this is so nice”. Then we started kissing and I was thinking “we’re kissing now, that’s so cool!”. Then we started to undress and I was thinking “well, we’re definitely undressing, but I’m sure we’ll just stop there”. And then we were naked under the covers, and I thought “OK, so now what?”. He stayed under there for a while (I later found out that he was figuring out how to use a condom and that he was also a virgin) and then we had sex. It hurt a bit and I bled a lot. I didn’t really like it at that time. Afterwards, i remember saying “I was expecting to feel really different, but I don’t.” Luckily, sex got a lot better later on.

we had been kissing for a while, probably an hour or so, with lots of vodka and cigarettes in between that he had been feeding me which made me take trips to the toilet a lot, stumbling over the floor and laughing innocently about it. i wasn’t really used to the taste of both as i had just started experimenting with everything and his tongue tasted of strong tobacco but i remember the smokey room almost like a cloud with a dim yellow light…with a harsher white light from a laptop in the corner. we eventually started to undress and this is where my memory is unclear. but i remember lying back on the bed, him trying to give me head and i was hard for all of about 2 minutes and then soft because i was so drunk, i think he ended up flaccid too but he was happy to be putting the attention on me, trying to revive my penis. i looked at the clock and decided i needed to go home. in the end i didn't cum.
I was 17 and quite impatient to loose my virginity. I was going out with a guy at the time. One night we were messing around in his car, I saw a condom and handed it to him, with a cheeky smile. He didn’t hesitate and opened it. I remember looking really carefully while he was putting it on, quite fascinated by his nonchalance. In the meantime all i could think was ” Oh my god, it’s happening, it’s happening, it’s happening…”

I then opened my legs and he laid on top of me. Probably because I was really nervous, I felt lots of pain, kind of like a needle stinging my inside. So i asked him to stop but he ignored me, probably didn’t hear me? I don’t know. At first I wanted him to stop but then I thought that it’d be better to get it over with. Good thing is, it didn’t last too long :). On the way back we didn’t really talk. I was quite happy for “growing up” in a way.

We broke up four months later and i was devastated. Shortly after that, we became occasional fuck buddies. Then i got a boyfriend so we just stayed friends. Now he has a girlfriend so maybe he doesn’t feel it’s appropriate for us to be friends. I don’t know, I dame care.
Anonymous asked: Our head rep in halls (1st yr, Day 3/4) had brought with him his friend who, like him, was also in fourth year, bit older so that boded well for me. I decided then and there that i would be the one he'd flirt with although that was as far as I would have thought. The night progressed, I was undone by drink and in a swift blur I'm in my still strange bed with this heavy man on top of me I panicked and tensed, it was painful. It was foolish, he took my virginity but he was not my first lover.

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Sex

"Love is a Name
Sex is   a Game
Forget the Name
Play the Game"----- Me

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